We continue our series on spiritual maturity, focusing on how it relates to leadership and service in the church.
Interestingly, in our context, maturity is often mistaken for longevity in the church, holding important titles, or having theological knowledge. Some believers, especially those with influence, seek recognition through power or title roles like pastor, prophet, or leader. But this mindset promotes a culture of status rather than service.
Jesus approached this very differently. Though he was the Son of God, he chose to call himself the Son of Man, a title that made him one of us. He walked with dusty feet, lived among the poor, and came not to be served, but to serve and give his life for many.
True ministry is about serving, not controlling. Unfortunately, in some spaces, leadership has become a way to dominate rather than to guide with love. A friend of mine once said he preferred to be called a “sheepdog” instead of a pastor because it reminded him of his role to serve the flock on behalf of the Shepherd.
This is where lay ministry becomes vital. A spiritually mature person focuses more on how they can serve than on holding a title or proving their ideas are better than others’. The one who serves, loves, preaches, and gives their life reflects the Gospel in action.
At the same time, we must be careful not to confuse theological or biblical knowledge with maturity.
Learning is essential, but it must be rooted in love. As we grow in faith, we realize that maturity is not about knowing more, but about loving more.
Paul wrote to the Corinthians in his first letter, chapter 3, saying, ‘I gave you milk, not solid food, because you were not ready. Indeed, you are still not ready. You are still worldly. For since there is jealousy and quarreling among you, are you not worldly? ‘ In that passage, he pointed to jealousy and conflict as signs of spiritual immaturity. True maturity looks like love, respect, and unity, especially when we disagree.
Those who use the church for personal gain or power are not following the way of Christ. True maturity is marked by humility and service.
Wanting to serve is good, but it must be done out of love, not for recognition. Let us grow in faith by doing what Jesus did: love and serve.
Warmly,
Rev. David A Gaitan
